17 Secrets Of A Boyfriend’s Life Which He Never Talks About Unless You Ask Him
Couples out there, relationships are a must, right? Well, from the emotional stability gained to all the wreck created by arguments, one goes through many ups and downs when in a relationship. You don’t desire much of it, but one comes along with another. It often comes down to one simple thing – transparency, for staying happy or satisfied in a relationship.
To all the women, it’s easier said than done because to come out with one’s true self is tough and if your man comes out with the truth, you’ll crave for mystery. Accept it; you like men who are like a book and would prefer to go through the pages of it with time instead of all together. Well, (beware men) even then your loved one has not been truly honest with you and the following points will tell you how you failed to read between the lines.
You’ll be briefly reading 15 things which your man never wanted to tell you.
To start with his past, he would never talk to you about his exes and even make sure that you never stumble upon her name or in person even by mistake. He has been in relationships, but he rather likes to avoid mistakes, which were made in the past. He wants to keep those memories shared with his ex-girlfriend’s at bay and not affect his present with you.
You might think that he’s being mean yet he also never wants to let you know about his sickness or when he falls ill. Because he doesn’t want you to get worked up or worry too much about when there’s already much going on in your own life to manage.
Wallets and mobile phones
If you’re the type of girl who grabs his wallet or phone without his permission, then stop right away. Since the agenda we’ve chosen today is all about talking what he doesn’t tell you, he will not say anything yet he’ll never like you going through his wallet or smartphone.
Whether a habit is related to his personal hygiene or getting high on drugs, he’ll never want to express anything related to them. Although he never will resist to smoking pot with you, on the contrary, he’ll also never take the initiative to bring up the point first.
Checking out other girls
This goes without saying, it’s human tendency and poor boys cannot do anything about it. So, avoid asking them “Were you checking her out?” because they’ll never reply you in favour of that.
Fantasies in bed
Women have a higher sexual urge than men, still, never think that they don’t have their own pre-mindsets. Though they’ll never express all that they want to do to you in bed.
One major reason for why he dislikes your habit of browsing through his phone, men have a habit of collecting adult content. Whether that be in the form of clips or films, there’s no doubt about it, yet they’ll never accept it in front of you.
Some of the things which are frequently done by you also make him furious, yet he will try to be calm when with you. It doesn’t mean you’ve been given a free pass, this often takes the form of grudges, so just wish that they don’t explode on you someday.
Lies told in past
Men are no saints, on the other hand, they too have a long list of wrongdoings. Lies have been a big part of their lives which women will have no clue about it unless they hire a detective to spy on their men.
They have zero, no kidding yet never think that they’ll say a ‘yes’ to it if asked. They always seek emotional support from you, doesn’t matter how self-reliant they pretend to be.
Similarly, they also have an inferiority complex when it comes to their physique or performance in bed. And, they’re constantly thinking about whether you are attracted to him or satisfied.
Dependency on you
Take pride women, he perhaps picks up the cheque at a fancy restaurant or pulls the door for you but, he is dependent on you and would feel like standing in a no man’s land if you’re not standing beside him.
Cuddle all day
When it’s time for action then he will deliver what’s required of him, that doesn’t mean he is always satisfied with it. It was partly done to satisfy you, if you ask his inner self (since he’ll not tell you) then after all the banging he would want to spend the rest of night and day with you in his arms and nothing else in the world.
Resistance to your decisions
Nevertheless, don’t forget he is an individual entity at the end of the day. Which means you have to stop forcing your decisions on him (another source of grudge). He’ll never be frank about not liking it but in his mind will always dislike you being authoritative.
Among many reasons, the one told above contributes largely when he is deciding to live a lifetime with you. He is also afraid because he is unsure of the fact whether he’ll be able to support both of you financially. You must be thinking you never forced him to bear all the expenses, then why? Well, that is what he thinks and never tells you, remember. You’ll have to talk about this if you want to spend a lifetime with him.
And, Secret of “Morning Wood”
The condition is known as Nocturnal Penile Tumescence (NPT) in which men’s penis is hard in the morning too. It is because of the sexual fantasies that they dream of during the daytime. When nights are concerned, they tend to be at full liberty and also the hormones such as testosterone are higher in morning. The boner, however, can also be affected because of blood flow. Nonetheless, it doesn’t matter whatever reason may be behind your boyfriend’s boner in the morning; they’ll never tell you about it.
Bonus: Fear of losing you
Finally, he’ll not ask you to live with him and still, the thought of you leaving him sends shivers down his spine. Therefore, men will never tell women about their fears, insecurities and dependencies.